MY CAT JUST DIED :’(?
My 'baby boy' just died..And I feel HORRIBLE! Unfortunately,We are going to bury him behind our shop..I've been crying all morning & night..And,It's SO hard and unbelievable. My bittie boy didn't die of a sickness..But,I just can't stand to see him dead in my mind. Geez this hurts!! I've only had this beautiful cat for one year only,But he was the closest pet I think..As far as I know. My bittie boy would always give me kisses,he would hold and cling onto me,He would purr when he saw me,He would run up to the front door..And now,None of these things are possible. They never will be again. I CAN'T TAKE THIS! My best friend passed away years ago,Now my best PET just died. And this is ironic,But we had 6 animals. {Not our fault! They were forced onto us!} 2 cats,and 4 dogs. Our new pup we had recently gotten a few months ago,Died this sunday...And now this cat. I'M SCARED ANOTHER ONE OF OUR PETS IS GOING TO DIE,OR WORSE YET:SOMEONE IN OUR FAMILY WILL DIE! Because a family dies in 3's,So I've been told. Think about it:3 deaths at a time. And 6 animals..That's horrible! There's been 2 deaths in our 'family' so far..And,I'm extremely worried I'm next! I know that sounds crazy as shit..But,It's true.
I can't believe my precious angel has passed! I'm still not even close to finished grieving over my human best friend,But now my 'best pet'! What?! Geez,My life is so unbelievable! I broke down,And I still don't know what to do..This question is just on:1.How can I quickly heal over the pain dealt from this unfair/cruel death? 2.Does my cat know I love him? Before he died,My mother told me to go outside and get him..But I refused to,Because I was mad at her..Not him. And if I had listened to her,THIS NEVER WOULD HAVE HAPPENED! I WANT HIM BACK! Oh my gosh! I don't want him thinking I was mad at him. 3.Do you think any more of our pets will die soon as well,Or someone in our family? I'm scared! 4.Why did 2 of our 'family' pets die..IN THE SAME WEEK? I know this is a sign from GOD..But,What could it MEAN?
Thanks
June 18th, 2011 - 05:57
Hmm maybe a Disease is going around go to a Vet.
June 18th, 2011 - 06:39
How sad. There are no potents or other mumbo jumbo, no statistics, no second-guessing. Your cat died because it was his time. Soon the natural healing process that is Grieving will commence, but you have to embrace it and cry freely so that it can flow in waves of diminishing intensity over the days and weeks to come. Then one day you’ll find the first thought that comes to mind about your cat will be how he was in the happiest of times – he’s become like an avatar. Let his legacy be that you will look after your next cat as well as you possibly can and teach it everything you learned about cats from him.
June 18th, 2011 - 07:12
I feel very sorry for your loss and I know what you are going thru. I have 9 cats now but before these 9, I had 7 cats and they all died within 3 years. The oldest one lived to be 19. Its hard to get over the loss of a pet. I’m sure your cat knew you loved him. Don’t beat yourself up over these losses. They say time heals but I still think of my cats all the time that aren’t with me anymore. I know they say death comes in 3′s and its a scary thought but try not to think about it. Your cat may have had something wrong with it that you weren’t aware of. The same thing goes for your puppy. The best thing I can tell you is to make sure your animals are checked by a vet for diseases that can be spread to other animals. As far as getting over the loss of your cat, it is going to take time. It does get easier but it takes a while and its not easy.